Here Are 9 Things to Make Your Backyard Perfect for Your Family

A backyard is a luxury that’s easy to take for granted. Spending time outdoors with your family in an increasingly digital world can create crucial bonding experiences that benefit your physical and mental health. Turn your backyard into the perfect family hang-out space with these nine things.

A Water Feature 

Water has a calming effect and can be an excellent tool for play. There are many options to choose from, with different sizes and maintenance requirements.

A pool is an excellent tool for exercise and to cool off on a hot day. However, it can get costly and there are important safety considerations to note. A fountain creates a relaxing sound and can still be fun to play in, but it may not be as interactive as a pool or hot tub. Depending on your yard space and desires, you can choose the right water feature for your family.


Gardening is an excellent way to bond as a family since all ages and abilities can participate. Whether planting seeds, watering plants, or picking flowers and produce, gardening is an excellent way to destress and enjoy fresh plants.

There are many different types of gardens. You can grow vegetables — home-grown food tends to taste better and has more nutrients than store-bought options. If growing produce sounds too challenging or you want to expand your options, you can create an herb garden.

You could also grow a flower garden to make beautiful bouquets. Certain colors and scents can contribute to a meditation garden. Eucalyptus and lavender are examples of plants that have a calming effect.

I also love faux greenery to create privacy walls in the backyard which also gives green garden vibes.


Good lighting can help your family enjoy your backyard through the evening. Summer nights are precious bonding times and playing under the stars can create long-lasting memories. Lighting is also a safety concern, as you don’t want anyone not to see a potential hazard.

Many options — including string lights, flood lights, tiki torches and solar lights — can make your yard easy to navigate after dark. They can also be aesthetically pleasing, giving the space a soothing glow. You can even get lights that change colors to make your lawn feel like a party each night.

A Fire Pit

There are many advantages to using a fire pit in your backyard. For example, the light from a fire pit can illuminate your yard in the evening. It can create warmth if your space gets cool after dark. It’s also a great catalyst for cooking food, roasting marshmallows and sharing stories. You don’t have to go camping to enjoy a fire.

Ensure you always supervise children around a lit fire and that it’s completely out before leaving the pit. It’s also vital to check with local authorities to know whether or not it’s safe to burn during certain times and conditions.

A Patio

Patios are an excellent addition to any backyard, providing cooking, playing and relaxing areas. You can make your patio out of various materials, including concrete, stone or wood. Place chairs on it to enjoy the sunshine, set up a fire pit or experiment with fun decor items.


Privacy can turn your backyard into a personal oasis. There are many ways to increase your seclusion, including putting up a solid fence or privacy screen around the perimeter.

You can choose a barrier that is simple or ornate. Pick a lattice design and place plants on the links to create an aesthetically pleasing look. Alternatively, you can use stained wood for a privacy fence for a more natural feel. Landscaping with large trees and bushes can also help develop the earthy vibe for your backyard.

If you want areas of privacy but still want to feel connected with the neighborhood, create fences of wood slats or bamboo to block off small areas. Some screens can make it so you can see out, but passers-by can’t see in.


The right seating can make all the difference in your backyard’s comfort. Pool chairs, plush cushions, benches and swings could all be excellent options, depending on your family’s preferences.

If you have a tropical theme, consider going all-out by laying down beach towels or hammocks. Fold-out chairs could be a great option if you have an active family that likes to sit less often. They’re a quick and easy way to relax occasionally without compromising your space.


If you have a sunny backyard, providing a source of shade can be vital to taking full advantage of it. It provides a cooler, darker space where you can still enjoy your yard’s fresh air and scenery.

One way to add some sun protection is with an awning. You can choose fixed or adjustable options — some come with remotes to adjust the amount of coverage you get.

Another option is a patio umbrella over a seating or small play area. Planting trees is a natural option to add shade, but it will likely be several years before you can enjoy that benefit.

An Outdoor Kitchen 

The idea of an outdoor kitchen can seem intimidating, but having a way to prepare food and drinks outside safely can make memorable nights throughout the year. You can make hot food and drinks over the fire with a grill top and kettle hook. Keep an outdoor refrigerator or bar cart for your kids to access their favorite cold beverages and treats without going inside. If you have the funds, consider going all-out with a sink, countertop and oven to make your backyard seem like a separate home.

Making the Perfect Backyard for Your Family 

Your family is unique and you deserve a backyard that fits everyone. Use these items to create the perfect space for your entire household.

Hi! I'm Alexandra

I am an entrepreneur, author, and mom of 3 from Memphis, Tennessee. I fill my days pursuing the dream of being my own boss as a full time influencer and sensory marketing specialist while spending my evenings playing superheros, helping with homework, making dinner, and tucking in my littles.

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