Ditch The Tradition: Going With Mismatched Outfits For Bridesmaids

Being a bridesmaid is not as easy as you think! It is kind of a responsibility that every girl squad has to take in their BFF’s wedding. Quite exciting and emotional. Right? But in all the happy tears, don’t forget about your bridesmaid dress.

The perfect dress can make or break your look however, finding the perfect similar style, color, or size bridesmaid dress can be daunting. So, you can ditch the traditions and go for mismatched dresses that flatter your personality and style individually. 

Here are tips on how to wear mismatched bridesmaid outfits like a diva. 

Tips to Wear Mismatched Bridesmaid Dresses

Choose the same dress style but in a different color.

No two girls have the same skin tone, so when choosing an outfit as a bridesmaid, consider different dress colors per your shade. But keep your dress style the same. For instance, you can dress your bridesmaid squad in the same off-shoulder A-line gown or a maxi dress and finalise which color to choose. 

Extra Tips: 

  • You can choose a dress colour from the same color family for a stunning look. 
  • Limit your color options to three or fewer colors. 
  • You can choose the same dress which has different patterns. 

Opt for a similar color but in a different style. 

Sometimes you all can choose same color dresses but in different styles. As a bridesmaid you all have different body type, so you can’t choose a a similar style of dress. Be the spoil support of mismatched bride trends.

Extra Tip:

  • When choosing the bridesmaid dress, don’t go for hundreds of instructions. Make a clear point with the bride about color choice so everyone can look mismatched in a beautiful way. 
  • To make things easier, choose convertible bridesmaid dresses, which help you choose the right dress per your body type. 

Try Something New by selecting a Different Color and Dress.

As a bridesmaid, if you are bored of seeing people in the same color and dress, try something new. Now you can choose your dress, color, silhouette or fabrics. If dressing this will become a disaster, you can add one element to make it look coordinated. 

Extra Tip:

  • Choose the same accessories, such as a statement necklace, hairpiece, ring, etc. 
  • Opt for the same makeup or hairstyle to look like you are part of the bridesmaid squad. 

Choose Different Lengths

You can choose dresses of different lengths but in the same pattern or family to look more mismatched. Whether you are wearing a full-length gown while another one is wearing a tea-length dress. Also, you can mix and match by making half of the bridesmaids wear long dresses; the other will go for tea-length attire. 

Accessories Can Save You

In case, as a bridesmaid, your dresses are different and are not even close to mismatched. Then, as a bridesmaid, you can choose the accessories that match each other. 

Makes Photos More Beautiful

When you choose mismatched outfits, it not only makes you look unique but also makes you visually appealing in photos. With the right contrast, style, and length, you will look stunning and have perfect candids with the bride and other people. 

Old Vs New Bridesmaid Traditions

                  Old Traditions                      New Traditions
In older times, bridesmaids used to wear nearly the same dresses as the bride to protect her safeguard from evil eyes.On the other side, in the modern era, the bridesmaid chooses dresses that complement the bride’s attire but are different in color. 
In the past, the expenses for bridesmaid dresses were often paid for by the bride’s family. On the contrary part, at present, the bridesmaid no longer relies on the bride’s family for any expenses. 
In history, bridesmaids were girls of marriageable age. Nowadays, there is no such restriction on who will become a bridesmaid. 
In the Past days, the bride has her maids to give her luxurious bath before D-Day. At present, the bridesmaid goes with the bride to spa treatment. 

Getting ready as a mismatched bridesmaid is not a bad idea. When you know the right tricks. From choosing the same color, different style and vice versa to choosing different lengths. You get all the details in one place to become the ideal bridesmaid. Additionally, now you have a better understanding of the old and new traditions of bridesmaids. Be it bathing her traditionally or going to the spa with her now. 


So, this time ditch the traditions and Go all mismatched as Bridesmaid. 

Please Note: I always strive to provide accurate and helpful information, but just a quick heads-up—I’m a blogger, not a doctor, lawyer, CPA, or any other kind of certified professional. I’m here to share my experiences and insights, but please make sure to use your own judgment and consult the right professionals when needed.  

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